3.31.2014

one-handed countdown

The number of weeks left in this pregnancy will now fit on one hand (that would be five).
What. The. Heck.
 I seriously can't believe it.  



I really don't feel like I'm 34 weeks yet...and for that I am grateful. I know I'll be more than ready to get this baby out when the times comes around, but I haven't really started to feel that "holy crap I am beyond done with this whole thing" yet. Having both a toddler and full-time job are both wonderful distractions.

I think it's funny to compare things from when I was pregnant with Jillian, especially pictures. This time I'm gaining weight so differently. 
This is me at about 34-35 weeks along with Jillian:


Look at my face!! I think last time my face also got pregnant. Hah! Oh, I also weigh more NOW than I did in this picture, so that's ironic...at least it's not going to my face this time.

But I also noticed this week that the baby belly is now an attention grabber. I went to the mall on Saturday and EVERY SINGLE PERSON that made eye contact with me immediately looked at me, then down at my protruding belly. Not gonna lie, I was kind of annoyed. BUT that also means I'm to the point in my pregnancy where I can pretty much do anything and get away with it because people will think, "Ohh, look at her. She's SO pregnant. Poor lady. It's totally acceptable that she's ______." 
So I've decided in the next week or two I'm going to go back to the mall, get a huge ace Cinnabon, and get a pedicure while I eat said Cinnabon. 
And I'm gonna eat all of it. 
Two thumbs up for me.

3.27.2014

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I heard somewhere once that if you pray for patience, you won't just 'get' patience, but instead opportunities to be patient. 
...
well. 
I don't remember praying for patience lately, but WOW have their been many-a-opportunity to practice just that. Opportunities that present themselves in the form of an almost 3 year-old. 
Whoever invented the term "terrible two's" needs to be corrected. I believe "terrifying three's" is more accurate. 
This combined with my raging third trimester hormones presents for really awesome situations, where I exercise probably everything BUT patience. And I'm too tired to think of specific examples that I'll probably find funny by next week.
Blegh.

(And I'm making another one of these little people?) :-p 

But thank HEAVENS for those little moments in the day where Jillian will come up to me and ask for a hug and whisper in my ear, "I lub you." 

Also, thank heavens for bubble baths, The Weepies, and this delicious pound cake. Why yes, I did eat my feelings tonight. No regrets about that whatsoever


yw activity: temple time capsules

Every girl dreams about their wedding, right? This week for young women's each of the girl's made temple time capsules. In the LDS (Mormon) faith, there is a great deal of importance placed on getting married in the temple (you can read more about that here), so we talk about it often.

Anyway, each girl gets a no. 10 or paint can to decorate with paper, ribbon, scrapbook materials, etc. To put inside their cans we gave them:

-A white handkerchief to represent purity
-Bookmark with the poem My Three White Dresses
-Two talks from previous church leaders, What is Your Destination? and Celestial Marriage
-A picture of their favorite temple
-A temple recommend holder


Then the girls filled out sheets on qualities they wanted to develop in themselves for their future husbands, as well as what qualities they wanted in their future husbands, and some planning sheets on what they want their dress to look like, ring, colors, etc. We haven't done this part yet, but we will also get some bridal magazines so they can cut out pictures and make collages of ideas they like:




Download all of the sheets above HERE
*Link has been fixed!^^

The girls wrote letters to their future selves saying where they hoped to be spiritually, emotionally, etc. at the point in their lives when they get married and what they might be thinking/feeling on the day they get married.

They also made wedding dresses out of toilet paper (like that bridal shower game) and took pictures. Some of the leaders brought their old wedding dresses and the girls dressed up in those and took pictures as well. Everything goes in the can and is opened again with their fiance one day when they get married!






It was a lot of fun and will be such a fun keepsake for each of them!

3.15.2014

i left my heart in san francisco

Okay, not really. 
But it was gorgeous. 
GORGEOUS. 


Jillian and I spontaneously joined my parents and brother on a little jaunt to California this week to visit some of my Dad's family, which is always a good time. I've been all over northern California and to San Diego, but never San Francisco! Definitely checked this off my bucket list. Random factoid- I was born in California! But we moved when I was like 2 or something. I claim Florida through and through. ;-)

We started our trip exploring the city in Chinatown. I love areas like this in big cities because for a few blocks it's like stepping into another country entirely. My super-pasty family definitely stuck out in the crowd though (especially since my little brother is like The Hulk)! 


Then we did all the tourist-y things- like riding cable cars, eating at Ghiradelli Square, the Wharf, and Pier 39. I'm kind of amazed I'm not in labor right now from walking up and down all of those hills. I got some looks from people passing by that seemed to say "Ohh you poor pregnant lady." My huffing and puffing probably didn't make people stare any less.








 Being surrounded by so much water was hydrating for my SOUL. That is hands down what I miss the most about living in a coastal state. Granted, in Utah we have a view of Utah Lake everyday, but it's just not the same. Nowhere close to the same. Give me salty air and uninterrupted ocean views and I'm a happy girl. 
And the weather couldn't have been more perfect. I am SO READY for spring! 


(I think my eyes are closed in this picture...I dunno...but otherwise I liked it- beach ball belly and all). 


I looked up some real estate in San Francisco just out of curiosity, and after seeing how many digits were next to the listing prices of the homes, and NOT next to the square feet, I realized we likely will never be living in San Francisco- haha. But I'm okay with that. The architecture is gorgeous- even though they're all basically on top of each other- they're all SO different! 

The rest of the week we were in Chico with two of my aunts and uncles and my grandma. Never a dull moment with them! But I also didn't take any pictures...sooo oops!

finished girls' room closet

Yaayyy it's finally done! 
 I wish I could say that about the rest of the girls' room...but for now I'm just referring to the closet. My original plan/thoughts on the closet are here
 I still go back and forth on my sanity level for putting so much thought into a closet.

 
But then I look at the before and after and I was totally justified. No buyer's remorse here.




Dresser: Ikea Hemnes
Wall art: this gift wrap from Rifle Paper Co.
Wire baskets: Hobby Lobby
Rope basket: A really dumb DIY 

The rest of the girls' room (gah I just love saying that...girlS) will get finished this summer. Mostly because there are other projects that need to get done before this baby comes and she'll be bunking in with us for the first few months, so I'm not in a rush. I have however started gathering some ideas:


Right now it's still sort of a hodge-podge of ideas and colors swimming around in my brain. Stay tuned.

2.21.2014

3rd trimester...whhaaaaa???

28 weeks and a few days! 



This is how I feel about that: 


I can't BELIEVE I'm already in the last trimester! I've decided by the time baby #3 comes along I'll just blink and sneeze, then "Oh look! A baby!" 

Surely most women experience that right? The more kids you have, the faster your pregnancies seem to go by? Don't get me wrong- I'm TOTALLY OKAY with the phenomenon.

But that means in just a little over 10 WEEKS this little girl will be here!!! 

I have a lot to get done in just 10 weeks.
At least I finally started organizing all of the old baby stuff. That's a good start. My basement is an explosion of little people things. 

Overall things are going great. People are starting to ask me if I'm feeling "done" with being pregnant- not quite, but give it about 5 more weeks and we'll be there. Everything is getting progressively harder- bending over, shaving, especially shaving, getting up off the couch, sleeping...all that stuff. I quickly forget my large girth and bump into things frequently. The other day I sneezed and legitimately peed myself. THAT never happened with baby #1. I immediately texted my Mom because I was both amused and horrified, and she said "just wait...it doesn't get any better as you get older." HAH!

Oh and speaking of a large girth, I'm only 5 pounds away from the heaviest I got when I was pregnant with Jillian...and like I said, I still have ten and a half weeks to go. WHOA. 
It's all good. My pants are super stretchy. ;-) 

The final countdown is on!

2.19.2014

the girls' room closet- halfway there!

If there's anything I know about being a girl and having a girl with a second on the way, it's the importance of having a functional closet.

The first space that needed revamping in Jillian's room to accommodate not one, but TWO girls and the massive amounts of clothes we've managed to procure for them was the closet (I blame Baby Gap...something happens in that store where I lose track of all things time and money...especially money).

Ideas:
(who makes an idea board for a closet? Me. I do.)


Her closet before was pretty standard and closet-y. We could've managed to make it functional for both of them with just some better organizing, but WHERE'S the fun in that?

 (I also used it for some of my clothes and shoes as well...oops...that also had to change, which means by default I had to clean out MY closet.)

The real problems here: not enough storage space, it stays open most of the time out of convenience so the doors just get in the way (which means everyone can see how messy and not pretty it is), and with needing the space for a toddler bed AND crib in the room, this space also needed to accommodate some kind of changing area. 

Basically I decided I wanted the closet to feel like an extension of the room instead of just, well, a closet. 

The first things to go were the doors. We never used them, so off with their heads. The room already felt bigger with those suckers gone:

No doors! 
Cue the Ikea Hemnes dresser. Storage problems: solved. Plenty of space for Jillian and her soon-to-be sister and my their shopping addiction (squeezing it in there was super fun to figure out- but by golly it was going to fit whether it wanted to or not). The drawer inserts Ikea sells also make everything more organized, which makes my little OCD heart flutter.

I added a pop of color to the walls with some left over paint from our bathroom. 
The wallpaper on my idea board from Anthro is dreamy, but the price? Not so much. $148 per roll is no joke...well, kind of. I did kind of laugh when I saw that number. I have no problem justifying expensive things, but James probably would have left me over $150/roll wallpaper. ;-) Fortunately, I found this gift wrap paper online from my new favorite store for all things paper related. Best part? $8.50 for 3 huge sheets!



It had the same color scheme and look I was going for, and now that I compare them I actually like this one better. I'm not sure yet if I'm going to frame it in there, hang it, Mod Podge it onto something...I dunno...we shall see. But it's definitely going to pretty-fy the space and tie in all of the other colors I have planned for their room.

Progress
 
So now we are well on our way to a functional, organized, pretty closet. Win, win, win. 
I just need to add a couple of more storage baskets up top and on top of the shelf for the lotions and things, figure out the artwork situation once that gorgeous paper arrives, and then WAH-LAH. Closet perfection.

Progress:


                                                                    
I reeeeaallllyyy want to add a mirror to the back of the wall. Why would I add a mirror to the back of a closet? Because it will make the whole room appear bigger since mirrors are you know...reflective. I'm not sure how that will work out yet since I'm not doing true wallpaper, thus the physics of hanging it may get tricky...so if you have any ideas, do share. 
:-)

2.16.2014

4 easy steps to design a space

I'm taking a bit of a break from my DIY projects and decorating plans and all that jazz for the...night...
(At what point do you admit you have an addiction? Hah!)

Anyway, several people have asked me lately about some decorating tips and advice (which was both surprising and flattering), but it inspired this post.

If you're anything like me (maybe you've already found a good therapist and can recommend someone? :-p I kid.), deciding how you want to decorate/style a room is sometimes harder than actually doing it. I hate making decisions.

But these 4 tips will make it a bit easier when you're decorating a space. Mind you, there are a TON of different approaches to tackling a room/house, but this is something I've found that really works for me!

(pin it and make me famous) ;-)

1. What do you need the function of the room to be?

Some rooms are easy- like a bathroom. Only a few things should happen in there..but other rooms, like a living room, bedroom, office- those are open for a little more interpretation. For example, do you have kids? Do you entertain often? What do you like to do in your living room? In your bedroom or a kid's room, how much time do you spend there? Do you keep toys in the kid's room or prefer it to be only a relaxing/sleeping space?
Basically decide what needs to happen in that space. A room should be as functional as it is pretty. That will determine almost everything about it- how much storage you need, space you need to have open (the flow of the room), type of furniture and fabrics, etc. 

Check out this dual purpose office/play room. Notice there is a dedicated space for each activity- playing and office-ing- plenty of storage for toys on the right and office things on the left, and an open area in the middle for more play room (you don't want kids tripping over computer cords after all...or eating them...). 


2. How do you want the room to feel?

Light and airy? Sophisticated? Comfortable? Relaxed? Chic?

Notice none of those words are style words- like contemporary, traditional, shabby chic, rustic. Decide how you want to feel in the space first, then find out what style best represents that feeling so you can start gathering and searching for ideas. But if you don't know the feeling you're going after, it will make other decisions harder. Instead of looking at something in a store and thinking "Is this contemporary?" Ask if it would help add to that feeling you're shooting for.

The dining room on the left feels light and fresh, while the dining room on the light is a lot more sophisticated and fancy. 


*Start to notice what it is about these spaces that makes it feel this way- like colors, textures, and furniture.

3. Choose a color palette. 

Whatever you do, DON'T paint a room first. I've done this before and I'll tell you why it's a bad idea (unless you're doing a very neutral wall color)- you will spend so much time trying to find other decor to tie in with your walls and the rest of the room it will be SO frustrating. So instead, find a piece (piece of fabric, curtains, pillow, piece or art, etc.) that represents the colors you want in that space, then plan everything around that piece, including wall color. It's so much more logical and easier to find items in the colors you're looking for this way. (This is also just one of many ways to plan a good, cohesive color palette, especially if you consider yourself a "noob" to home decor).

Notice in these pictures there is a piece that "ties it all together". In the kitchen it's the art on the wall, in the living room it's the bold floral pillow. Each room uses a lot of color (which I love), but it all coordinates because of that "starter piece". It doesn't have to be all matchy-matchy, but the colors do all compliment each other. Remember contrast is good, clashing is bad.


I'm currently in the process of turning Jillian's room into a shared space to make way for baby #2 and I'm going through this EXACT process. When I'm farther along I'll show specific examples in each area, but my color scheme was inspired by this wallpaper from Anthropolgie:



Once you have your starter piece you can choose which colors you want to bring out and use more of, and which colors you still like but don't want to stand out as much.

4. Now get inspired and start finding ideas!

 Pinterest is your best friend. Create boards with elements in each of these 3 areas that you like and put a caption specific to what you like about the picture. Do you like the room layout? The color scheme? The use of texture? How it feels? Whatever it is you like about it, remind yourself what that is so when you're shopping you can recreate that. (And don't be disheartened by the crowd that says "Oh, did you get that from Pinterest?" all unimpressed like...before Pinterest people got inspiration from magazines and stores and no one thought THAT was any less creative).


 (check out my decor board- one day I'll organize it by room...one day...and my inspiration for the new girls' room)

Notice trends and common themes in what you're posting. 
For example- I noticed I was pinning a lot of white, bright kitchens. I painted my cabinets white, changed the wall color and added a backsplash, but I couldn't figure out what was missing until I revisited my board and noticed all of the white kitchens I loved had some type of green plant in them- AHA! That was the common element I was missing. I added a couple of small plants on my windowsill above the sink and it really completed the whole look.


And that's pretty much it. Notice BUDGET is NOT one of the main ideas- that's because no matter what your budget is, you can still create the look and feel of what you're going for. You will always be able to find a more/less expensive version of certain pieces. It's OKAY to pin/find examples of super expensive things if they inspire you!

And remember that decorating is a PROCESS and rarely ever done all at once with everything completed in a week (or a month even!). Do what you can, when you can and enjoy the process of seeing the space transformed! 

Happy decorating friends- and keep the questions coming- you make me feel like maybe I actually have good ideas instead of just crazy obsessions. :-p